Meaning of "Door Number Three" by Sara Bareilles

The lyrics of "Door Number Three" explore the theme of being trapped and deceived within a relationship. The narrator initially believed in the strength of her partner and hoped for growth and positive change, but she eventually discovers that her partner takes what he wants without considering her needs or feelings. She feels burdened and weighed down, represented by the imagery of "cement shoes" and being unable to move. The repeated mention of "door number two" suggests that the narrator has already attempted to move forward or make a change, but finds herself stuck in the same cycle. The lyrics also convey a sense of self-realization as the narrator acknowledges her own part in falling for the boy within the man and taking the bait. She reflects on the fact that strength does not always equate to being strong and recognizes her own misplaced hope for change. Despite feeling heavy and unsteady, she starts to consider the possibility of getting ready to make a change, symbolized by the potential fire that could char the ground. The urgency to make a change before drowning in the rushing water further emphasizes her desire to break free from the confines of the relationship. The song ends with the narrator expressing curiosity about what lies behind "door number three," suggesting a longing for something different and unknown.